How did Igbo women become this toxic on social media? — By Jane Chukwu
A typical Igbo man is a simpleton, they will neglect themselves and care for their women. Infact their women will determine which child should be supported more.
It is mostly Igbo men that will be an illiterate but will send their wives to school to PHD level and brag about it without feeling bad at all.
An Igbo man will rent a shop for his wife, fill it with goods and every year he will renew the rent and also add more goods without asking her about the money. He feels it is his responsibility to care for her.
Igbo man will take his wife out and allow her drink small stout, high up and yet will still call her mummy.
Still Igbo men that will see a woman in a previous marriage, take care of her and decide to be her saviour without minding what made her leave the marriage.
Then years back they understood that the freedom they gave to their wives are the reason they refuse to cook for them, take care of kids, become useful and accountable, so they woke up from their slumber and started asking their wives to be accountable, to be a wife and also a mother to their children.
They started asking them to be faithful and accountable to them and all of a sudden the over pampered Igbo women claimed their men were narcissist because the simpletons they got married to have changed from being simps to responsible adults who demand for respect and accountability.
These women are lawless, disrespectful, foul mouthed, fight anywhere including in the market, abuses and are violent to their husband’s workers.
It will take a lot of strong Igbo men to withstand the rebellious behavior of their women and I pray for this generation of men to keep standing their ground until changes happen.
We can’t continue like this as a tribe. Check anywhere on the internet where any disgraceful behavior is expressed it will be either an Igbo woman or they will be the supporters of that evil.
I’m an Igbo woman, who is tired of the irresponsibility of some of our tribes women and I’m advocating for rehabilitation of these women and I’m calling on other reasonable, responsible Igbo women to use their platforms to educate others.
The same energy Igbo women put in causing havoc can be used to transform generations.
The good thing about them is the fact they are intelligent, resilient, hardworking if they want to be. They are also go getters and strong willed. However these attributes can be used positively.
This is not limited to Igbo women however they are in majority and apostles of these behaviors, others are learning from them.