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More than worrisome, it’s disheartening to see and read of a wife killing her husband and of a husband killing his beloved wife.
It should bother one, how a once blossomed and Loving relationship between a man and his wife can quickly go sour and turn bad, to the extent of death.
I have had to ask myself “Why and how” over and over, like I’m sure you must have to. What could it be, how?
I think, the culture of silence on domestic violence emanating from the fear of what would be said after the “walk” has sent so many to the journey of no return.
And, honestly, the silence is usually deafening and unwarranted, most times laden with lame excuses, like “I don’t want to return to my father’s house, I don’t want to take another wife, society will make mockery of me and so on.
The moment a relationship is becoming suffocating, intolerable, annoying and irritating to you and has continued to be that for longer than usual, think about taking a walk.. It could be for reappraisal of what you had, or a total walk out, either way, be practical and reasonable.
A man that could beat you to pulp because of his insecurity or other reasons , I bet would kill you, out of anger may be, but, hey, death is death, either by mistake or deliberate.
And yes, that nagging wife who always threatened to cut off your manhood or kill you in your sleep, may actually do, so, Beware!
I tell you, such a relationship is not worth that so much risk.
Now Mothers, a guy is fond of beating your daughter, and all you could say is “you must endure, that is how Ile Oko is” really, were you beaten by her father when you got married, and if you were, do you want your little girl, to suffer same fate as you?
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Your son said “My wife is somehow temperamental” and you replied “Give her time, omode lo n se e” I pity you ooo…
Check everything, and please, check again! It could mean nothing and EVERYTHING!
And you, your husband cannot go a day without beating you (it’s routine) yet you’re forming “Happy home” because you think your friends are doing better, stay there, if he doesn’t kill you fisrt, you might just be the murderer, and you know what, No one will remember how long you’ve been battered.
So, don’t wait till you snap, don’t wait till you’re maimed. Take a walk!
Your wife is a bottle breaker, and can be unassumingly provocative, don’t wait till she dries up your well of patience ooo. Take a walk!
In 2015, a female lawyer Yewande stabbed her husband to death in Ibadan, Oyo State, a 29 year old old killed his wife in Lagos State, in the same year.
In 2016, a Lagos State based man was arrested for killing his banker wife, and sometimes this year a wife contracted an EX- convict to join in killing her husband of more than 15 years in Osogbo, Osun state.
All these cases have one or two things in common, accusation of “infidelity” and “insecurity” and they are merely of the instances.
On Sunday In Abuja, A wife Maryam, was reported to have stabbed her Husband to death.
TIME to take A WALK!
